Things to do daily after marriage to make the relationship stronger.

We talked to some experts about marriage advice. Those experts were basically those successful couples who have been living happily since long. Some have said that they spent 30 years together and they never fought. Some told that they raised children together and they still feel that they have met just now. Different people have different pieces of advice. Some are mentioned below.

1. Say these three words daily and they are not’’ I love you’’

Saying I love you daily does not do the thing that the other three words’’ I can help’’ can do. We are humans. We struggle with our lives in our own way. Sometimes one of us is stuck in a quagmire and can’t take the lead to get out of the problem. Be always there to solve the problems of your partner no matter you have the power to solve or not just try with him/her that would cast the magical effects.

2. Independent hobbies

Another elderly couple told me that they never stick with each other. They always had their own hobbies and line of interest to follow. Never feel disheartened if you are doing some interesting thing alone. You might dream that aahh! I wish he was there with me. Don’t feel that way. Just your adventure or hobby alone and then tell the stories to him/her at the end. It would be more charming.

3. Don’t use children against each other

Another widow woman told us that her husband never told their children about their fight. He always used to smile before children no matter how upset he used to be. We used to settle our skirmishes within the room boundary and this is how our conflicts never get the space to grow between us.

4. Solve each other’s financial problems

In our culture, it is odd for men to ask money from his wife. And it is considered very okay for women to ask money from her husband. Though there is no strict rule to follow. Both must help each other. This will make them stronger as a couple.

5. Show of love in public

An old woman told me that our society is very conservative. It needs to be open a bit. We should not mind the couples holding hands in public. This will enhance the beauty of our society. On the other hand, it will raise confidence in women and men. They will know that his/ her partner owns her/his public. At the end it will make the couple happier than usual. It is just a trick to be happy.

Life is hard but it is harder when we don’t pose the positive attitude towards it. There are many couples who might not be happy with each other, I can bet that on asking the conflict nature would turn out as minimal as nothing between them. It is just both the partners pay less attention towards the minor things that have the extensive potential to correct the wrongs in marriage.